calm your nervous system for $300 FREE!

Because every woman should be able to feel calm & release overwhelm without… well, feeling more overwhelmed.

This self-led program will help you…

🫶🏼 process your “messy mind” and make sense of your feelings.

🫶🏼 move through those heavy feelings quickly, without needing to hide from them or drown in them.

🫶🏼 shift your focus & have you feeling in control again – not like everything is just happening to you.

🫶🏼 choose how you intend to feel instead - think grateful, content, calm, happy, and excited.

🫶🏼 start anchoring into these higher vibe feelings now, by using NLP informed tools.

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NLP INFORMED, SELF-LED mini-program

How To Calm Your Nervous System After Separation

COST: FREE!


✔️ 7-day access

✔️ NLP-informed tools

✔️ 8 short self-paced videos

✔️ Guided practices + resources

✔️ Completion time: approx 2 hours

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what’s included + what to expect…

✔️ 8 x Video Lessons - each one 3-7 minutes in length, so that they are easy to digest.

✔️ 7 x Guided Practices - that gently guide you to apply what you’re learning to your life.

✔️ 1 x Printable PDF - ‘The Circle of Control’ is a resource that will guide you to take back control of your life.

✔️ Lifetime Access - allowing you to take your time, and revisit as often as you need.

✔️ NLP Informed Tools - life-changing tools rooted in Neuro-Linguistic-Programming, which you will have for life.

✔️ The Opposite of Overwhelming - the entire mini-program can be completed in approx. 2hrs, so you can feel calm fast.

Your Questions Answered

why i created this mini-program…

I created this self-paced mini program after spending the last year supporting newly separated women - and noticing the same two barriers to healing come up again and again.

The first is overwhelm. When your nervous system is in survival mode, even the idea of “healing” can feel like too much.

The second is accessibility. Not every woman is in a position - emotionally or financially - to step into 1:1 coaching or a longer, deeper experience straight away.

This mini program is my way of meeting you where you are.

It’s gentle, practical, and intentionally accessible - designed to help calm your nervous system first, so you can breathe again and decide what comes next from a steadier place.

who will benefit from this…?

This self-paced mini program was created for the woman whose world has just shifted, and whose nervous system is feeling the impact. If you’re feeling emotionally overwhelmed, on edge, foggy, or constantly in survival mode right now, this experience will meet you exactly where you are.

Through short, gentle videos and simple practices, you’ll learn how to understand what you’re feeling, calm your nervous system, and begin releasing the emotional weight you’ve been carrying - without rehashing the past or forcing yourself to “move on”.

By the end you’ll feel steadier, clearer, and more grounded. Plus, you’ll have tools you can return to whenever overwhelm creeps back in.

Meet Tess…

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I’m Tess, an NLP & Master Life Coach who specialises in supporting women navigating separation, emotional overwhelm, and identity loss.

A decade ago I walked away from a toxic marriage with two young boys, no money, no support nearby, and a nervous system in survival mode. I know firsthand how overwhelming this chapter can feel - the fear, guilt, self-doubt, and constant sense of being on edge.

I also know that healing is possible, and it doesn’t have to take years.

Today I’m happier and more grounded than I’ve ever been, and I’ve dedicated my work to helping women move through this season with clarity, emotional safety, and confidence - but much faster than I did.

This program exists because I’ve been where you are, and I want you to know you don’t have to do this alone.

I’d be honoured to walk beside you as you find your way back to yourself.